Sarah lived one hundred and twenty-seven years … and Abraham came to mourn for Sarah and to weep for her (Genesis 23:1-2).
Abraham’s wife Sarah had her faults, but the Bible gives a positive testimony concerning her. God called her a princess (Genesis 17:15). She’s pictured by Paul as an illustration of spiritual freedom (Galatians 4:21-31). She’s listed as a heroine of faith (Hebrews 11:11), and raised as an example of God’s delight in a woman (1 Peter 3:1-6).
Mary, the mother of Jesus, was a great woman, but she is nowhere in the Bible specified as an example of anything; but we are told twice in the Bible to make Sarah an example to be followed (Isaiah 51:1-2; 1 Peter 3:3-6).
Interestingly, Sarah is the only woman in the Bible whose age we know. Her death after more than 75 years of marriage was met with weeping from her husband. These are the first tears mentioned in the Bible, and people will continue to cry until God wipes away our tears in Heaven (Revelation 21:4). Tears are not a sign of unbelief, but of sorrow, and even as a man of faith, Abraham still sorrowed.
God made us with the ability to cry. To tell a grieving believer to stop crying is poor advice; the Bible only says that believers must not mourn like unbelievers. Unbelievers have no hope of seeing their loved one again, but as believers, we are assured that our believing dead are not only safe in the arms of Jesus, but we will be reunited with them in Heaven (1 Thessalonians 4:13-18).
We’re not told that Abraham cried when God told him to leave everything behind and travel to a far-away land; he didn’t cry when his father died, Lot was captured, he sent his eldest son Ishmael away, or even when he was told to sacrifice his beloved son Isaac. When Abraham knelt beside the lifeless body of his wife and remembered, he wept. Death was the last enemy, but grief doesn’t last forever and life goes on for us left behind.
Vance Havner was one of America’s most traveled evangelists during his 72 years of ministry. Warren Wiersbe met Dr Havner shortly after his wife Sarah Havner died after 33 years of marriage. Wiersbe offered his condolences. “I’m sorry to hear you lost your wife.” Dr Havner replied with a smile, “Son, when you know where something is, you haven’t lost it.”
** An oldie but goodie from May 2019.
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